How To Stop A Breakup

The only downside to falling in love with that special someone is the possibility of that relationship going bad, and leading to a breakup.  Often the first steps to stopping a break up include things NOT to do as well as things you NEED to do.    First, we’ll glance at some of the things you need to do, then we’ll look at some of the things to avoid if at all possible.

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Things You Need To Do To Stop A Breakup:

Practice The Three C’s – Calm, Cool & Collected

If you are honest with yourself, you probably knew a breakup was coming, and can take some time to prepare yourself mentally,  However, if for some reason this does happen to hit you by surprise, you need to do everything in your power to remain calm, cool and collected.  You do not want the last impression you leave with someone to be that you have some anger management or emotional issues.  Often it is helpful to keep in mind that this is the first pass, and that reconciliation can occur in the near term.

Help Them Get What They Want

Often the best things in life come to you when you are helping others get what they want.    While you may really want to stop a breakup, often it is best to put your wants aside for the moment and help the other person get what they want – a breakup.    While this may sound counterintuitive, stop for a minute and think about how this will go.    Calmly agree with the person that this is the right thing for both of you, and that you yourself have been feeling this may be the course of action that you wanted to pursue. While you are disappointed and hurt, yes, this is for the best.    The other person will immediately begin to wonder why you were thinking a break up was necessary.      It is only human nature. 

A great Relationship Guru, T W (T dub) Jackson, goes into more detail in his best selling ebook the Magic of Making Up.    It is a great resource and has invaluable advice for stopping a break up and getting your ex back.    If you can’t wait and have an urgent need for this resource, you can check it out here: 

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To explore the always important “Things NOT To Do”, click here to continue reading How To Stop A Breakup.